THE "SINGLE" QUESTION

I always get this Q on twitter : "If you know so much about love, then why are you single?" First of all, I don't know a lot, I just say a lot, even if it means giving up my pride or what I think is right, and maybe that's why people resonate... Imagine if we all expressed our fears and joys and desires and dreams, all at the same time... I bet we will learn that we're all carrying the same weaknesses, and strengths.

I am single because I finally chose to be single. One of my worst fears in the last 10 or so years is to be alone or to not have a partner in life, and that only made me settle... for someone who did not share the same reality with me, or someone I could never learn to trust, because I always feared too that there might not be any chance for love -- I have been there so many times, and I am tired of pretending to be blind to the truth. There comes a point in life where we all find new eyes and see things clearly , beyond illusions, and learn... My last relationship was the turning point for me. 

So here I am all fearful of being alone, and yet here I am almost 3 years without a partner. Am I over that fear? maybe, maybe not...Can life guarantee me that the next person will be the ONE for me? I'll never know until I fall in love again. The future looks a lot brighter for me though, because I am now aware of the infinite possibilities that come with a hopeful spirit. I am now aware that pain is something that passes, and if things do not work out I can always move on, for no other reason but that I CAN. I am now aware that there shouldn't be walls, just bridges. I am now aware that what I have always wanted, and needed is not something that the universe provides by making it magically appear in front of my face , rather by circumstances that I can only call divine guidance -- that allows me to discover, and unveil this love on my own, and that is simply MYSELF... I am more beautiful than I think I am... and so are YOU. 

As long as we keep remembering to stay in touch with this beautiful self only then can we truly live in harmony with each other, not because we are forced to but because there is no other choice but to live this way. When we resonate... we see oneness... we see true and unconditional love. And this is the kind of love that turns all noise into music...and the kind that makes all lovers dance.

So if you're alone, remember this: You aren't cursed , or doomed for life...This isn't ill-fate... This is the time you are being guided, to make the choice that best fits your reality. Don't ever be afraid of being alone... for we are not alone... we are all-ONE.