It's so important for people to let go of everything that's happened in the past. Release their grip on all of their negative emotions that they're holding on to, or of the revenge that they'd like to carry out against other people. Realize that everyone that they perceive to have wronged them has done so simply because of the perception they have of reality, and holding onto that, and wishing to do harm to them as an act of retribution simply compounds the problem.
When you seek to carry out an act of revenge against someone all you are really saying is --"It's okay for you to mess up my life because now I'm going to mess up your life."-- You do exactly what was done to you. You become that which you hate. You become that which you felt so bad about when it was inflicted upon you. Yet you are so willing to inflict it upon someone else when in fact the act of doing so only serves to validate the action of the person who wronged you. The trick is to lead by example, to be the change you wish to see in the world.
When you seek to carry out an act of revenge against someone all you are really saying is --"It's okay for you to mess up my life because now I'm going to mess up your life."-- You do exactly what was done to you. You become that which you hate. You become that which you felt so bad about when it was inflicted upon you. Yet you are so willing to inflict it upon someone else when in fact the act of doing so only serves to validate the action of the person who wronged you. The trick is to lead by example, to be the change you wish to see in the world.
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